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SoulRiser
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Why I hate school in general
August 11, 2001 - 08:15 AM
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What is school? A place of learning? That was the original idea. But that was a long, long time ago. School is still assumed to be a place of learning, but the things we learn the most about nowadays is to shut up when a teacher is talking, obey all rules, do all your homework, and never argue against the rules. Teachers say it's all "for our own good", as if they care for us so much that they force us to obey rules by threatening us with all sorts of punishment, that no reason is accepted for not doing homework, and that anyone who complains is just plain "lazy". I mean, I complain a lot about getting homework, but I really don't see myself as lazy at all. Why? Well, I work hard every day learning how to play guitar, drawing pictures, writing poetry, reading TONS of stuff about everything I'm interested in, and maintaining my internet site. Teachers say those things can wait until I'm finished with school, and that my education is the most important thing to me. They have no right to tell me what I should view as important to me, I have my own mind, I make my own decisions.
Teachers seem to wonder why students refuse to do homework, and hate schoolwork so much. I hate homework because the teachers want me to view it the way they do. I can't stand wasting my time doing stuff other people say are so important but really don't benefit anyone. I could do so much more good spending time with a friend. But I'm not supposed to see that as more important than my "education". I would much rather give my time for a friend than for someone who will punish me if I don't. If a teacher asked me nicely to do them a favour, I would be more willing to do it because it has some direct benefit for someone. Now, a teacher would probably say that homework is important because we learn from it and improve our ability in the work. But then what's school itself for? Those are the things that school itself is supposed to do. Homework was only invented much later.
Why are most teachers so unkind? They seem to want us to hate them, even if they keep demanding our respect. How can someone who takes out their everyday frustrations on students in their class expect to be liked? How can someone who doesn't listen to anything a student tries to tell them expect that student to obey rules they set for them? One teacher once told me "I did not become an educator to be liked by students". They don't plan to be liked, so if they're not liked, how can they possibly demand respect?! I have never once been unkind to any of my teachers, yet often they are unkind to me and my other friends who have never been unkind to them.
Students who don't like school are seen as the trouble-makers, and somehow associated with laziness and disrespect. I'll say a little more about the respect thing: respect is earned, you can't demand it. The so-called authority in schools demand that we respect them. What have they done to deserve our respect? I can't speak for everyone, but I always respect someone until I find reason to do otherwise... kind of like "innocent until proven guilty". So, in my school I started off by respecting my principal and all my teachers... but not any more, because: they don't care if we tell them we can't cope with homework, then they just tell us we have to plan our time effectively. If we have a free period, they tell us to do "something constructive" in other words, schoolwork. And never mind what WE might view as constructive. Sometimes sleeping can be the most constructive thing to do to get some rest so we'll have energy later on. Basically I don't respect them because they don't respect me. They broke the respect, so I broke it too. You reap what you sow. So we disrespect them but they can't see that they need to get a little respect for us too. Now of course a teacher will argue against what I just said, and probably say I should just learn to cope with it. Why? Give me one good reason why I should learn to cope with being pushed around and getting (what I view as) useless work stuffed down my throat. I'm not the type of person that just 'adapts' to everything people do to me. I stick up for myself. I don't take crap from anyone. And don't tell me how much teachers care about and respect students, because if they really do, they better learn to practice what they preach before they lose all hope of anyone ever believing that.
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Robert Margolis
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Education Issues Haven't Changed Much
August 12, 2001 - 12:13 PM
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Your protest against school tells me that things have not improved much. When I was in school, there actually were a few classes that had good material to learn. However, one always had to really fight the adminstration to get intot them. Usually the interesting classes were reserved for the "gifted" students. Your classes were based on your classification. It is very sad.
I must say that I enjoyed my college years more, since I had greater choice in what to study.
I have noticed in US culture that credentialism or no-nothing seem to be the prevalent extremes in the cultural discussion.
While I do believe there are good things that can be learned in school that will help in later life, these subjects are often too restricted. It seems in the US that we still base our educational doctrines on the old factory system (i.e. kids are to be trained to work compliantly in factories). The world has changed, but our institutions have not caught up.
One last item: don't be TOO hard on those teachers. When you have lived several years paying mortgages and car payments, your idealism is often tempered. People sometimes need to be reminded in a positive manner what they are doing there in the first place.
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