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Samuel Green
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January 2, 2005 - 04:18 AM
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Calling the move towards abstinence a "battle" or "campaign" is very shallow and relatively hurtful. In calling it a battle you assume that one side is righteous while the other is wrong. Abstinence is not universally "right" nor is it in any manner "wrong". Because we are supposing this to be a global community we must realize that there is no universal morality over all of us. If premarital marriage is a strongly held value then that is great, but do not assume that it pertains to all. I have been to churches and temples and i know that the christian god is not my god. I believe that waiting for marriage is unimportant, in fact i think marriage itself is unimportant. Commitment can be just as strong without being officially recognized in the eyes of a government or a god. What matters, to me, is the feelings you have for a person. Abstinence is great, and for many it is moral, but to be truly inclusive i would like to remind people that it is not a moral issue for many. I do not follow god and yet i consider myself to be more moral than many of my christian friends. So be careful when you call abstinence a "battle" or "campaign".
As for HIV/Aids it is a very personal issue. My dad has Aids. He didnt get it from a sexual partner or from drug use. In the mid 80s my dad got HIV from a contaminated blood transfusion. On average i spend 3 hours a week volunteering with a group whose aim is to educate local youth about safe sex options. Condoms are effective, we teach that. Abstinence is safer, we teach that to. What we also teach is inclusiveness. Teach these things as methods of prevention, not as being more or less "right" than one another. Where i live, sexual expression can be a beautiful and meaningful thing, even without marriage. Where i live, abstinence is a magnificent prevention method but has no more innate "moral" value than premarital sex.
Believeing in a god is wonderful and so is following his morals. I salute all of you that do that. Just remember that not all people feel the way you do and that your morality does not apply to them. Just because they dont follow your morals does not mean they are immoral. Abstinence is the safest but condoms and knowledge are very very safe as well.
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Safe Sex, a dream
December 5, 2005 - 06:52 AM
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Well, to me, safe sex is all about abstaining in totality from sexual conducts which might result in sexually transmitted diseases and its likes.
But from the going of things, safe sex seems to be of no regard to millions living on earth today, nobody wants to abstain in totality, rather the use of condoms, contraceptives and other preventive measures seems to be the way out. with the advent and use of such preventives, to me, safe sex is nothing but a dream, abstinence is the only way forward for us if we want to acheive this great feat of conquering the world of sexually transmitted diseases.
but that is a very difficult aim or goal to achieve, because most persons are sex-crazed.
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Read what the Pope said
December 5, 2005 - 08:37 AM
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hmmmm... The Pope said it all, what more can I give but to put my five fingers up for every thing he said.
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Read what the Pope said
December 6, 2005 - 03:56 AM
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Originally posted by Abongta
hmmmm... The Pope said it all, what more can I give but to put my five fingers up for every thing he said.
good said
well, it depends why do u want to have sex.
firstly it's ur and ur partners choice for doing it in the first place ... if 2 love each other- do it, othervise don't. and if they don't feel it's safe to get a child get sth not to get it. if u're using uses aginst it (condoms etc.) it's safe. but if u're so worried getting aids etc. don't go into bed with everybody who gets past u! make sure person u're going to have sex does not have aids or similar! duhhhh!!
if u like to have sex every minute of ur life, it's ur problem, not others!!!!! do it if u like, but don't complain about concenquences after sth happens to u!
what could i say for the end ... don't sex if u don't want to and don't do it with everyone. u can also live withouth it if u're too afraid of getting dissease or whatever ...
and most importantly -be carefull!:P
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