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keara

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missing children
Apr 29, 2012

800,000 children are reported missing each year in the United States that includes children who are lost, ran away from home and who have been abducted. 200,000 of these children are taken by family members 58,000 children are taken by people who are not family members but are close to the child. a little more than half of the children are returned home alive but the other forty percent are killed.

so my question is how can we keep our children safe and prevent things like this to happen in our community

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Farhad

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Re: missing children
Apr 30, 2012

"Alcohol, drugs, loose family relationships, Hollywood and similar institutions, pornography, violence in media directly contribute to missing children" while unsustainable growth and industrialization indirectly contribute to missing children..
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Chenty Abu

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Re: missing children
May 3, 2012

We just need to be strict with the kind of people we entrust our children to.

Lets also choose schools with tight security for them and be careful the kind of nannies we employ for our kids.


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Jennifer

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Re: missing children
May 4, 2012


Chenty wrote:

We just need to be strict with the kind of people we entrust our children to.

Lets also choose schools with tight security for them and be careful the kind of nannies we employ for our kids.


Sadly, this kind of society is one that is becoming increasingly necessary, although we would not want it to be that way.

Do we want our children to grow up living under surveillance throughout their childhood...?

Would we rather they could run free and play in the sunshine, or go to schools that are not more like prisons than places of learning..?

It is true that child abduction / abuse has always gone on. It's happened throughout the centuries, only now we are more aware of it. In the age of mass communications it is more "in our face" than it ever was before. This can be an aid to education... teaching parents to be more careful about who they employ to look after their children, or being more watchful when they let them out to play.

But this becomes oppressive when it goes to the lengths of restricting liberties and freedoms that young people should be able to enjoy.

Rather than prison camp conditions for children, I think there should be better education to parents, teachers and other care professionals who work with children, to teach them how to spot all the signs, and what to do when their suspicions are aroused.

How to spot and challenge a suspicious character lurking near a school. How to detect the signs that a child may be being abused. Better investigative techniques for catching criminals and returning children to their families,and for monitoring known sex offenders released back into society.

All these things, and others besides not only put pressure on the offenders (where it belongs), but it reduces the need for intrusive surveillance and restrictive living conditions.

It's the criminals who should be living behind the fences and being watched every minute of the day, not the children.


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Farhad

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Re: missing children
May 4, 2012

It is absolutely necessary that criminals are put behind fences so that our children would be free to live naturally and normally. But I believe we may go towards a world with less and hopefully no criminals. Doing that, we shall pay attention to the roots that cause creation and growth of crime and criminals.
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Jennifer

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Re: missing children
May 7, 2012


farhadmiriany wrote:

It is absolutely necessary that criminals are put behind fences so that our children would be free to live naturally and normally. But I believe we may go towards a world with less and hopefully no criminals. Doing that, we shall pay attention to the roots that cause creation and growth of crime and criminals.
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A world without criminals would be a wonderful thing, Farhad. I would fully endorse that sentiment, however, it is unlikely this will ever happen.

I believe a decent society should not only protect the children, but should also protect their freedom to grow in an environment with a minimum of physical restriction. Please do not confuse that with lack of supervision, guidance or discipline, just one where they can enjoy being children.

I agree wholeheartedly your comment that it is the criminals who should be restricted.


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Farhad

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Re: missing children
May 18, 2012

One question is that how long children may be let to enjoy being children.

It seems children shall be let to enjoy it for a certain time of their age and then to be let under supervision for another certain time followed by some kind of mutual child-adult relationship so that they become responsible adults.
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