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Praveen Kaushik

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Love: Do We Understand It?
November 19, 2003 - 02:02 AM

There are several things worth knowing in this world. There are various fields of knowledge & many paths needing exploration. There are several fields, which come within the normal purview of man’s curiosity.
We must have heard about very hard working four chambered pump, most vital of human organs, from poets, lovers certainly having very romantic character………………………
We could have say it’s a beauty, weighing almost 300 Gms red brown in color & more pear shaped than Valentine.
Yeah, I am talking about “The Lighthouse Of Physical Temple” i.e. Heart.

Heart, dwelling of love, when goes on to be explored in deep seems more pretentious than infinite varieties that are needed to carry on the myriad different activities that constitute life.

The love:
The treasure of emotions.
The bond which makes/joins the relations/the living beings.
The only factor which challenges vital energy.
Love motivates lovers to grab the peak, if it’s a true love not limited to physical pleasures i.e. sex only. Love really awakes & elevates our good effects, overall intelligence, sharpness etc in our vicinity i.e. real emancipation of ourselves in the truest sense.
Love is never seen but always felt by every small living particle existing in our body. When does it happen? No body knows. Simply pulsating heart turns into a puissant throbbing love house when a fairy’s smiling kisser continuously makes splosh of soft feelings around it. It gives fresh lease of life. No doubt!
But, unfortunately, the fundamental soundness of love in today’s life has been deteriorated. Sexual activities, thoughts & feelings have been mingled with love in such a way that only these seem like the natural instinct of it. This is certainly a calumnious ideology. I am excused to say but films & films’ stars are also strengthening this whammy. I ask avoiding the tightly interwoven system of Give & Take, if only sex denotes the prototype of love then, why do sexual intercourse/activities account for a loss in vital energy? This loss can also be noticed visibly as dullness in eyes, spiritless face, dry skin, lethargic body & feelings of oblivion, illusion & fatigue etc. As love always gives rise to corresponding increase in the vital strength, enthusiasm etc., then why reduction in Bio-magnetism of body? Why such a Great loss?
Generally, the youth mistake accounting the Heterosexuality as love, which is the greatest fallacy done by them. Actually Heterosexuality occurs only due to the Bio-electromagnetism of a man & woman. There are a lot of relations between two opposite sex in which sexual thoughts, feelings can’t be accept at any cost.
If I would be asked, do I love my mother, sister, bhabhi etc? The answer must be positive but how can I dare to have sexual feelings for them. NO, That’s not possible.
Today, Love appears to be auctioned on a payment basis in the mart, which is definitely a dangerous ocular consequence of filling sex in for love. This is a paltry malady, which is by and by maiming Humanitarianism, and we all are watching it like groggy seers. Outrage of modesty of our great wealth LOVE is creating some leading questions before each and every capita of our society.
That’s why some demarcations have been made. I’ll use a Hindi word MARYADA, which is absolutely, appropriate for this state of affairs. Maryada means demarcations/precincts, which lead a man towards awakening, making a distinction between a man & an animal.
We are socially well bonded living beings not animals.
This is the philosophical/ principal difference between Indian & Occidental cultures. Isn’t it?
Actually Love motivates the eternal bliss of the complete merge of our individual selves into one. Each & every person of this Universe cherishes this conformity & union. But people try to search it through sexual activities, which only result for a loss in vital energy & its subtle strength.
There has been a narrow definition of Love in modern life, limited only to physical body & pleasures associated to it, which is raving balderdash. It must be explained proving the authenticity of all aspects/forms viz. Subtle, Conscious, Astral & Physical of our body, a miniature representation of well-fashioned Cosmos.
(A complete decipheration of the complexity of our body system is possible only by the interlinking of material based scientific research and the realization of the invisible subtle powers through spirituality which indicates the beginning of a collaborative research between the physical and spiritual sciences. Modern scientists have also started to realize it. If this could ever be done unveil the mystery of our body system and the universe, it would turn out to be the greatest gift of the creator of the cosmos endowed upon our life.)
History is a bystander of sacrifice, dedication etc. of some great lovers zum beispiel Radhha –Krishna, Heer-Ranjha, Laila –Majnu, Paro-Devdas etc. These all-great lovers except Radha-Krishna sacrificed their physical bodies gaining immortality through subtlisation when welt geist went against them. There are also no radical evidences in the history of their physical unification. WHEW!

Concluding, love is divine

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Re: Love: Do We Understand It?
December 12, 2003 - 10:10 AM

Its funny people don't really understand the meaning of love.

They don't really know that helping an animal, a dog for example out of a trap with a broken leg is true love rather than having sex with a partner maybe once every 3 days

Love is unconditional. Love demands no return. Love is actually free and truly love is blind.

Put yourself to the test. Think about someone you think you love, are you willing to help the person in whatever assistance needed just after that same person called you a fool?


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"Love is the seventh Wave"
December 12, 2003 - 10:40 AM

Think for finding a definition of something is a good work and classifying It in different ones too... but in my personal view I think "Love is only One"!

Firstly, is a powerfull feeling that involves soul, hearth, brain and other undefined parts of our human organism... Secondly, is a natural reaction when our senses and feelings match in somebody or someones whose fill it up's in us that amazing energy call "Love", and finally "Love" irradiates a peaceful and enjoyable feeling that is hard to describe in simple words...

For me "Love" is feeling, peace, tolerance, share, happilly, a great dream turn on in reality... "Love" is that beautiful star that we want to reach from the universe... That is love! In spite of the fact from any type of classification... So for me only exist "One Love"!

As smart people we us... We have in "Love" a nice human tool for using as a silver chain for enhancing a new level of knowledge around the world...

You know... Nowadays, "World" needs "Love"... and It is a great seed that "Mother Earth" and each one of us urgently needs...

Humans developed, through history, outstanding ideas and philosophical treats... but words as: "Liberty", "Democracy", "Freedom", "Human Rights", "Peace", "Fraternity", "Equality", "Aid", etc., aren't enough without the power of "LOVE"...

"World" needs a big change... use "Love" for building a new "real" developed society! Send your "Love" to the future!


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Real Love!
December 15, 2003 - 02:33 AM

LOVE is what you do for ALL others that is in their highest or best interest, anytime, anywhere, selflessly (24/7). The 3 forms of love are: agapeo (love relationship between us humans & the 'maker of all things', the same GOD of John 1:1 & Romans 10:9); phileo (brotherly love...seeing to it others have it just as good as you do...all are neighbors); and eros (a physical, sexual, romantical love). Love needs to be in our houses again, so love will come home to stay!


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Re: Love: Do We Understand It?
December 15, 2003 - 02:52 AM

Love is a reciprocal act that involves an equal give-and-take relationship. Love is not a one sided thing. Many times we cause confusion of love when we put conditions on love. For example "He/she will love me if...".

Love, the world needs more of it.


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The Meaning of Love
January 15, 2004 - 02:09 AM

Love... It's in all ears, but do we really understand it?

Maybe we never will. Maybe it is such a supreme power that it conceals its true nature from us. Maybe it's so divine and of a higher level of existence that we will not grasp its true meeaning even if it's stanging inches before our eyes.

I think the most beautiful thing ever written about love is this poem by W.B.Yeats. For me, it represents what love really might be. Unselfish, patient love.


W.B.Yeats: Aedh wishes for the clothes of heaven
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Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half-light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly, because you tread on my dreams.


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Re: Love: Do We Understand It?
March 14, 2004 - 12:39 PM

love is what you make of make towards others.the exemplary love is potray by what Jesus christ did for Christians.again love is not pride,rude, arrogance, lust,boastfulness,.love is depicted by kindness,patience.caring,humble, understanding,humble towards the opposit person you exercice the love with.


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Love is..
March 15, 2004 - 04:56 AM

I think love very simple terms is this...
1) trust
2) someone who is willing to tell you how they really feel about you, and correct you if need be
3) forgive you when you messy up


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I need the mathematical equation for love.
April 8, 2004 - 01:17 AM

So I can replicate it and sell it in late night info-mercials.

Just think of it, love in a can. Perhaps Coca-Cola and Pepsi-Cola would still own the market. Never mind, just a thought.

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Re: Love: Do We Understand It?
June 24, 2004 - 02:40 AM

What is love???

Hmmmm... it's a diffucult question??? But interesting indeed. But do we really understand it?

Love has its own reason that reason do not understand.


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Re: Love: Do We Understand It?
June 25, 2004 - 10:10 AM

love is not understood, it is felt


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Love IS felt
January 7, 2005 - 03:24 AM

I Agree

The only partial understanding we have is the talented assortments of writers, singers, poets, philosphers, artist etc who attempt to put this feelings to words, music or canvas. It can be described, but not shown

It must be felt to have a full understanding


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No i dont
March 29, 2005 - 08:16 AM

Is it just a feeling or its expressed in actions? Is it blind as people say so?


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Love is truly bliss....
April 8, 2005 - 05:52 AM

I believe love is indeed blind AND unconditional. It should have nothing to do with sexual intentions, because love is love is love. It doesn't matter what you do, say, or act, if you truly love them you will stand by them. If you dont, you dont. But it is not based on physical interaction. Love is felt. It makes feel like your on top of the world. Love is love for your god, or your fellow brothers or sisters, or love for someone you want to be with for the rest of your life. Love is the foundation of a family. Love is trusting them to help you no matter what it is, and being with you every step of the way if you cant help.
Without love, there can never be peace, equaltiy, justice or freedom. We need LOVE to do that.


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What's love?
April 8, 2005 - 10:15 AM

Hi there,
I read all the posts regarding love.
For me love is trust..oh someone just said that.Love is indeed blind...that's said too.Now is there anything left for me to say about love...let me see.
Ahhhh...Love starts with 'L' and ends with 'E'.But the gap between 'L' & 'E' is too deep to explain.


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