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Ishwor
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what do u prefer?
July 27, 2009 - 12:03 AM
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Stay passive n just be nice to everyone or speak the truth and deal the fact despite many people come against u. what do u prefer?
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Re: what do u prefer?
July 27, 2009 - 03:10 AM
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I prefer to be good and want to speak truth but being passive in all the situation wont work for me. All these things depends upon circumstances,it not only depends on what we think and say. so thought is best, and implimentation fits when things go right. Its my personal view and its not important it should match with anyone.
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Re: what do u prefer?
July 27, 2009 - 07:18 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being passive about something we all are every now and then...But i prefer telling the truth, and although people might despise you for doing so,well...., not everyone is supposed to like you right?lol. For the most part you will be appreciated and respected for your bluntness, but know how to use it well cause the truth stings at times.
It's best to strike a balance between the two.
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Re: what do u prefer?
July 27, 2009 - 09:21 AM
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ishwor92 wrote:
Stay passive n just be nice to everyone or speak the truth and deal the fact despite many people come against u. what do u prefer?
that's a very good question - it was a big issue for me for a year.
with my friends and classmates i couln't speak about policy - we had totally diffrent opinions (which is good) and that about deep issues. and i always tried to avoid this topic but ad a certain point i just couln't do it anymore - i've been quiet for a long time for the harmony - but it never felt good - and it wasn't good - i have my opinion and i say it - and if i start arguing because of that than i've to do it - it's better than to not speak about it.
it sounds kind of strange, i can't explain the whole situation - it would take way to long - i just learned that it's never good to be quiet, to speak out is the only way - to face discussions which may be though but necessary and i learned that a lot of my "friends" aren't my real friends
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Dan Brown
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Re: what do u prefer?
July 28, 2009 - 11:36 AM
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Hi,everyone.
I've been checking in with the conversation over the past few weeks, and just wanted to add that there's this new book coming out that I think you'd all love--check it out!
Here's the link: http://www.punchoutpublishing.com/index_files/page0003.htm
I've already ordered a copy, and they're giving free shipping with pre-orders.
Let me know what you think.
Dan
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Saladin Abuhamdieh
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Re: what do u prefer?
August 1, 2009 - 03:31 AM
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speak the truth even if people will come against you.. i mean after all it's the truth.. they can't be against you forever.. yes, truth hardly wins but after all, you feel better when you speak the truth.. caring about people in every move and step in your life won't make your life better...
just say the truth
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