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Suneboy
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????Guardian's role for children in a family
July 14, 2009 - 09:32 PM
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It’s the home where a child receives his/ her first education, which is as good as the formal education he/she receives to lead a better life. What, according to you, are the things that parents/guardians must teach a child?
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Re: ????Guardian's role for children in a family
July 15, 2009 - 08:20 PM
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I agree that it is so so so important for children to learn valuable lessons in the home, before they can go off to learn fundamental education in an institution. Sadly, though, many parents these days do not seem to be teaching their children the life lessons and skills that they need to succeed in this world. These are basic skills like manners, etiquette, conversation, anger management, appropriate displays of emotions, etc. Basic, but highly fundamental to everyday living.
Children learn by example; there's no denying that - children recieve the majority of their *socialization* at home, from parents/guardians. And unfortunately, it is not until the child is much, much older, if ever, that he or she will finally realize that his or her guardian may have been a very BAD example. This is not to say that every parent should be perfect - we all make mistakes, of course - but simply that, today, not enough parents are prepared to take on the responsibility of properly raising children in our society.
I'm not sure that was what you were looking for, but that's my opinion (in short!)on parenting today - not exactly in it's glory!
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Re: ????Guardian's role for children in a family
July 15, 2009 - 08:49 PM
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Mr. Trotter, what you tend to say gets my answer. Its true that the parents neglect their children form making them socialized. Most of them reject their responsibility.
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Re: ????Guardian's role for children in a family
July 18, 2009 - 06:13 PM
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Very true. And unfortunately, since children get this kind of experience in the home, I would say that we can partially blame bad parenting for many of the other wrongs in our world.
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Re: ????Guardian's role for children in a family
September 5, 2009 - 12:27 AM
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Once we start thinking about good parenting or simply parenting, we tend to visualise how our children will grow as an individual. We have to introspect what we have got as a child what and we have not. We have to fully understand what is the objective of 'Good Parenting'. Once we understand that, we will find the ways and basics of good parenting.
As per my perception, we have to guide the child in growing with the sense of the following points:-
1) Developing a child as a good human being.
2) Education which creates a sense of awareness of the happenings around.
This post was edited on: 2009-09-05 at 01:44 AM by: LalitMishra
This post was edited on: 2009-09-05 at 03:00 AM by: LalitMishra
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Re: ????Guardian's role for children in a family
February 10, 2010 - 10:41 AM
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Our parent are our first teachers. What they teach by word, example goes into a child's subconscious mind automatically. Child looks up to the parent and in their eyes they are the perfect human beings (at least before adolescence) So guardians should live up to that.
Also children should be given independance in taking decisions and making choices.
Thoughts make words.
Words make deeds.
Deeds make habits.
Habits make character.
Character amkes destiny.
But it should be parents who should inject these good thoughts by examples.
Rest follows
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John Peterr
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Re: ????Guardian's role for children in a family
February 22, 2010 - 06:47 AM
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hi,
good words by Sheriffdeen, its a fact that parents are neglecting about their childs education prior to their childs schooling, Here the parents may be having their own excuses, but believe me its shows a lot of impact on the child growth.
Good Parenting knowledge need to be developed among the parents.
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