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Suneboy
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how do you perceive your parents behaviour?
July 9, 2009 - 09:41 PM
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Parents are always busy thinking about the betterment of their children; however, at times they come down harshly on the children. Being a son or daughter, how should we perceive their harsh behaviour? Is there any experience that you’d like to share on how you handle such behaviour?
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Re: how do you perceive your parents behaviour?
July 10, 2009 - 04:40 AM
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As they are busy and dont have time, they may be harsh on us....I always filter their words ie just ignore them if they are scolding us...when iwas kid I didnt speak with my for 3 days for a single reason..I didnt knew that she was tensed, she scolded me and I stopped speakin to her for three days....she too was so bold that she didnt speak..finally I had to...as I cant help myself without speaking to her.....So from that day onwards, I just ignore if it doesnt faavor me....in cases of my mistakes(when Im scolded), I just bow my head and listen to them..as a gentle girl...*
This post was edited on: 2009-07-10 at 04:43 AM by: yashoda
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Re: how do you perceive your parents behaviour?
July 10, 2009 - 03:06 PM
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Usually, when they get frustrated at or around me (which is quite often) I try not to respond with anger. That makes it worse. Like Yashoda said, bow my head and listen. If I respond I try to do so calmly.
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Re: how do you perceive your parents behaviour?
July 11, 2009 - 02:00 AM
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When my parents start scolding me I really try not to listen, because simply when I tried to listen I heard things that got me mad so I stop listening to what they say.
for example, most of the time when my parents start scolding me they would be talking about how shouldn't I be like other girls, most of the time if I did listen I might start saying things that might be true but would lead to bigger problems leading for them to maybe hitting me, so I got used to live in another world when they are talking.
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Re: how do you perceive your parents behaviour?
July 11, 2009 - 05:26 AM
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This thread is moved to the Education Forum where it fits better.
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