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Mohamed Eid
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[Poll] What do you know about marriage?
January 14, 2008 - 01:39 AM
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Diversity of the norms, believes, cultures and customs have influence marriage in many different forms. I would like to come up here, what each society believe the marriage. Than we’ll interchange how to select the best mate in your community specifically in terms of marriage, we than look if the marriage changed its origin form, what brings and how to overcome. We also expect to discuss rate of marriage in this last year whether it is being decreased or increased. We than share what each person believe the wisdom behind the marriage.
I know this threat will come out valuable comments, because it is something that concerning enormously, it is what bring on this world.
Your comments will be highly appreciated.
Are you ready to get marry in order to give brith a beautiful children?
Yes
(4 votes for 40%)
Not
(3 votes for 30%)
Not know
(2 votes for 20%)
I'm not sure
(1 votes for 10%)
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
January 14, 2008 - 01:13 PM
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Marriage is a somethings that fasten us from the freedom life. It is not easy to say that u haven;t changed anything of yourself after getting married. I don't know it is good or bad when we change ourself to be familiar with the new circumstant. is it necessary to have your own child after getting married?I don't think so. Because if a marriage bases on love- when the man really loves his wife, having child or not becomes so small thing.
Marrige also needs the honesty, a great confidence from husband/wife. Confidence will help people prevent the selfish and celebrate with the other;s success with the cheer as the succesful person who is also very happy himself. it also needs some respect too.
Wife doesn't mean friend. and husband is too. every people has their interest .It is not important to force oneself to be suitable to another. And try to be straight to each other.
Just getting married one is the best. I don;t like the polygamous.
Females were born is not just for the family, they also have the same rights as males.
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Mohamed Eid
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
June 28, 2008 - 03:57 AM
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I like to bring up some points in here; Mostly people are the fruits of very selective marriage between two mates attracted with uncontrolled way. Some people believe that they can make the most right person base on his own setting characteristics wish to select his or her mates. How many times had we experienced someone attracted our attention and later dispersed? How many times had been met some had great impact on our life and than missed him/her? Thought on the other hand, some people married someone they meet within short time that may be have another one’s relationship.
Marriage relation, romance, dating each one may have follow unique pattern. What everyone can set up as to obtain one of these relationships your judgment sometimes can get accidentally and intentionally. So if you have something difference on my opinion, just brings it.
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 14, 2008 - 09:45 PM
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I think that the value of marriage is measured individually more than by a cultural agreement. Personally, I made the decision of not getting married long ago, which surprised some of my closest friends. This does not mean that I won't become involved in love relationships, but for me marriage is simply a gathering that presents a new couple to their society.
At least in the case of Peru, my country, marriage usually occurs when two individuals fall in love and decide to make the decision of being together public. Not all marriages are of religious nature.
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 15, 2008 - 10:30 PM
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lapikiorejuda wrote:
I think that the value of marriage is measured individually more than by a cultural agreement. Personally, I made the decision of not getting married long ago, which surprised some of my closest friends. This does not mean that I won't become involved in love relationships, but for me marriage is simply a gathering that presents a new couple to their society.
At least in the case of Peru, my country, marriage usually occurs when two individuals fall in love and decide to make the decision of being together public. Not all marriages are of religious nature.
I think that, leaving aside any cultural value of marriage aside, the act itself has managed to reach other aspects.
I think this is visible in civil policies as clear as the ones of financial enterprises. I don't know what it's like in Lima, for example, but a lot of banks in Mexico have special financial "aid" programmes for married couples that need a loan to buy a place to live in, or who are about to have a kid and stuff. People don't generally struggle for the right to gay marriage because they want to wear a white dress, IMO.
I think there are a lot of moral decisions that must be done with a legal basis in which marriage has a role (being the way to have a legal status as 'married'), but it is not worth mentioning as I am sure the point comes across.
Anyhow, I think that the decision of not acquiring the status is very fair. Personally, I have not made a a resolution about this because I don't know what needs I may have in the future, but not being married is indeed an option.
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Mohamed Eid
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 16, 2008 - 02:03 AM
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Lapikiorejuda, I disagree with your decision not to marry, when I was like your age and in higher education, I couldn’t think about to get marry, I had other long term goals. But now I feel regret on that past time, because, as I say my self “if you get married early, your children will be same fit in my 40s” I lost a great time, I had a friend in my secondary school same age, he get married after he get in love with a young lady 17, and now they have three children, 6, 4 and 2. Somali idiom says “Consultation is one you may not know it, and one you couldn’t reach it”. So don’t miss this golden chance, if you miss it will not back to you again. Yes, every marriage should be based on love. Marriage without love is a food without salt.
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 16, 2008 - 02:25 AM
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Last sections of 10s and 20s person’s age, it is the best time of the life goal settings. If you don’t plan what your life look like five, ten or fifteen years later. You’ll be like feather that winds move any directions. Every body has his own choice; you’ll be required to make more effort. You can decide whatever you wish to achieve in your life, but remember; still your mind couldn’t complete its growth. It is mentioned that the person growth whether mind, or body complete at the age of 40. If you take wrong path while you’re in the above valuable ages, you will be upset at the age of 40, when you gained a lot of knowledge and experience. I see here friend saying “people don’t generally struggle right of gay marriage..” this something very ridiculous, same-sex sexual interest may lead you invaluable result. It is just get climax and orgasm; you are losing you potential energy. If you die your name or family name will be disappeared. But normal marriage will sustain forever your name and family name.
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 16, 2008 - 11:39 AM
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The thing is we are saying that sexual interest is not what gets people to marry where we live (lapikiorejuda and I), El. Not anymore.
Lapikiorejuda says it is a cultural/social value, from what I understood, and I say it is that but also has presence in practices where law is applicable.
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 16, 2008 - 12:45 PM
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What FaerieGirl said is true: the reasons for which people get married where we live is not mainly sexual interest anymore.
Thank you for your suggestions, El. You mention the importance of having children in your country several times. In Peru this is not the same, but if I ever consider having children, I will have them. I simply won't be married  .
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 17, 2008 - 02:24 AM
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All right faerieGirl, if marriage was not considered legalizing two mate’s sexual interest. Why is marriage agreement being acted on?
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Re: [Poll] What do you know about marriage?
July 17, 2008 - 02:37 AM
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No problem dear, I'm not imposing you getting married; it is matter of your choice. Marry decision is person's choice not regarded public value. There are a lot of people here in my country are bachelor singles. Heterosexual marriage became something put it down in garbage. Kill your hands your genetic heritage.
I wish to collect information affect people generally, so do you have any statistics denotes level married and unmarried people. I consider so much, if you have that.
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