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imran khan laghari
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Violence Aganist Women Is Matter of feeling not saying
December 10, 2006 - 02:48 AM
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I saw every one saying that violence against women is wrong it must be stop, there should steps taken by government, law are not like that but law like that. Why, why and why it is all like that? It is matter to feel not to say because; I observed one thing so closely that, when we hurt badly, we feel the pain, which realized us that what really pain, is? & How to care for that so we do not get hurt again? It is all like that, it is matter of feeling once we feel the pain of women’s violence we automatically think on our own that how we play our part in individual capacity to stop this violence so it will not hurt women again. Everyone himself take steps to bring reforms in the society to make it trustable for women. We all are aware very well, that women are the most beautiful creation of God, which play different roles for every individual as well as for the family in society such as mother, daughter, wife, sister, friend, companion, and partner of sorrows & happiness in real means. So after knowing this strong fact we must take steps to give women real respect, which they really deserve. Saving women from violence by the male dominant society is matter of feeling not saying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This post was edited on: 2006-12-10 at 02:49 AM by: imranlaghari
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Anu maheshwari
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Re: Violence Aganist Women Is Matter of feeling not saying
December 10, 2006 - 05:42 AM
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Tearing Down The Barriers
Interesting article . Have a read !
Samba Yonga
Zambia - 05/01/2005
So much has been said about women and the state of women around the world and what a woman’s role is in society. The role of a woman has undergone a huge transformation in the past 50 years in some places it has taken place faster than others. In Zambia the woman has been viewed as the keeper of the home the mother of a nation. Zambia is a very religious country, such that it was declared a Christian nation by the second president Frederick Chiluba, who came into power in 1991. The majority of the people live on the principles of the Bible and on traditional customs which are deeply embedded in patriarchal cultural values and these principles and customs strongly govern society and set the tone for societal roles among women.
For a long time women were very comfortable with the role they were given traditionally they were brought to believe that the place of a woman is in the kitchen meaning, looking after the family and the home. The general Zambian society did not really encourage the progression of women not that they were physically placed in an environment that they would not prosper academically or professionally but they were given designated roles which psychologically put them in a place where they felt that the role they had taken up is what they wanted and where they wanted to be, in most cases the role meant looking after a home and being a housewife. Every young girl was brought up to believe that the way of life was to get married and have children and look after your husband and your children.
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Cicero
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Re: Violence Aganist Women Is Matter of feeling not saying
December 10, 2006 - 08:02 AM
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People just need to be told whats going on repeatedly. Make awareness, shed some light in the subject.. propose changes .. be persistant, promote, advocate,
=> Let people know about many advantages of free society with people equal among themselves.
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Alan Thomas
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Re: Violence Aganist Women Is Matter of feeling not saying
December 10, 2006 - 09:08 PM
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I'm not entirely sure what the overall question of the thread is (it seems to be a statement rather than a question seeking opinions), but I think I get the general idea.
Yes, violence against women is wrong... veery wrong. But at the same time, violence period is wrong, whether against male or female. No matter which, it's never a good thing to be missing a role in the household; it's not good to have only a mother or only a father. At the same time, however, if it cannot be helped, then the side that is available would have to fill the role of the missing role... But that's a little off-subject, so I digress.
In schools, as more of a hidden curriculum, we're often taught that "boys should never hit girls!" It's out of this that girls start hitting boys instead, and boys wouldn't fight back out of fear that they'd get in trouble. For some boys, they get over this by finally standing up for themselves (the rule only really applies if the girl wasn't previously aggressive toward the boy)... however, some other boys don't get up and fight back. IN fact, they usually live for a long time in a psychological ball or sorts, where they hold built up anger, only for it to be released later on once they're older... and often in very, very harsh ways.
Perhaps we should place more emphasis on the difference between when it's right to defend yourself, and when you're just being abusive... Mental discipline is required there, however...
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Charles Candelario
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Re: Violence Aganist Women Is Matter of feeling not saying
December 28, 2006 - 12:24 PM
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it should be stop
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hekatea
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Re: Violence Aganist Women Is Matter of feeling not saying
January 3, 2007 - 11:15 PM
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Violence against anyone is absolutely wrong! It does not matter whether he is a male or she's a female. Violence is destructive.
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