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the pearl
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why?
May 13, 2006 - 08:02 AM
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hey ppl...........
i have question to you
why do you think two couple saparate after a wonderful love story,why do they broke up after having dreamed,laugh,cry together?
why?is it misunderstanding or they just top loving each other or what?
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Nancy Kan
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Re: why?
May 13, 2006 - 08:53 AM
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Hi, that's a very good question. But to answer it simply, I don't think that two people can ever stop loving each other after having been in a relationship no matter how it ended. It might not be as strong, but there will definitely still be that degree of affection from all the memories shared. And as for Why couples break up, there's no simple answer for that. There are various reasons.
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Rana Lo.
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Re: why?
May 13, 2006 - 09:41 AM
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There are many reasons, change is a major one whether the person changes or the relationship or cirumstances or all together. Also wanting your partner to be someone he/she isnt,having high expectations then you get nothing. Misunderstaning could be another reason, having different goals or needs in life that cant be met unless somebody sacrifices one of them. Arrogance and pride too. Bascially there are many different resons for breaking up & each break up is different from the other, you cant generalize it all.
As for loving, well I think you can stop loving somebody if he manipulates or abuses you, the beautiful image you had once of them is shattered and replaced by an ugly monster.
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Brian Satha
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Re: why?
May 15, 2006 - 04:30 AM
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Good question indeed. But the response are varying.
People may end relationships because thay have stopped loving each other or don t have the affection as it used to be . other its because of some flaws that they have now realised are in this once 'perfect' person. The list is endless.
The focus, though, should be how you move on and what you have learnt from the ocommunication that was shared amongst the two of in those intimate moments. and that the good that you showed or gave to the other person can also be given to a nother person with even more affection that the one before.
It is all up to you.
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