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Lim
连接： Aug 11, 2004
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说话温和
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性别和年龄： 女性, 26
国家：Malaysia
Province/State: Wilayah Persekutuan
城市: Kuala Lumpur
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
December 23, 2004 - 03:06 AM
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Q1) Have you ever stop to appreciate your family and background?!
A1)When I was younger, say around 15years old and below, with a kiddo mentality, I seriously admitted that I did not appreciate my family background. My papa is a butcher and my mama is a housewife. There is nothing much to be proud of in school because there are some students that will poke fun of my papa's job. Nonetheless, as I grow older, say like right now, at the age of 21,gonna be 22, I am glad that I have been through the phase of disliking my whole family yadayada. I appreciate my family and no matter what background each members is from, I will still treasure them.
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Q2) Have you ever stop tp think How the process of growing with a certain kind of people has shaped your life.
A2)Yes.
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Q3) Have you consider the struggles, the joys, the pains, the losses, the laughters, the vacations, the fights, the love, the support, the hugs, the nice and encouraging words, the spiteful word, the care in times of need and so much more that forms a lasting experience and shapes our lives.
A3) Mochiron!!!(Definitely)
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tomato and brinjal
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Cicero
连接： Feb 1, 2004
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国家：United Kingdom
Province/State: London, City of
城市: London
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 4, 2005 - 04:39 AM
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Financial side to the "family issue".
In most, in a vast majority of cases, its understood that "Family is well provided for", if there is one of the parents working and bringing home money (wage).
This is (under modern term) not at all enough. To get independent you need money for yourself. So to achieve full cooperaton among family members, all of them should receive some form of income.
Adult through work and wage, youngsters through stipends and funds ..
Ave Futuria
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emma
连接： Oct 29, 2004
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性别和年龄： 女性, 27
国家：New Zealand
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 8, 2005 - 04:55 AM
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home is where the heart is, for me. both of my parents work long hours and very hard to maintain what i perceive as an amazing family unit. i thank the lord or whoever is listening every day for being blessed with such a wonderful family. we are far from perfect or wealthy; all three of us children also work to pay for our university, accomodation and lifestyle. my only hope is that my children will be able to experience the same great family experience that i have, and that i will be able to provide that for them.
we are the future of this world! build great families! provide a better understanding for the next generation! nuture love & respect for everyone, especially your children!
love, emma
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Ashraf
连接： Jan 31, 2004
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性别和年龄： 男性, 37
国家：Saudi Arabia
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 9, 2005 - 04:14 AM
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For me the family is like the roots to the tree. You can not withstand the difficulties of life if that tree is not strong enough. It is your whole being. I can not thank God enough for having 2 children (..and the third is on the way). It is the joy that lasts for the life-time.
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Cicero
连接： Feb 1, 2004
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 10, 2005 - 05:30 AM
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Originally posted by Palestinian
For me the family is like the roots to the tree. You can not withstand the difficulties of life if that tree is not strong enough. It is your whole being. I can not thank God enough for having 2 children (..and the third is on the way). It is the joy that lasts for the life-time.
(When they turn teenage u'll have a problem.. I assume kids in that time will do substantially different things you did in your teen days. Understanding will be problematic)
Anyway, how do you find ideas on financial aid to youngesters in form of monthly stipends and establishing funds (for later days)? Thats the way we play it here. works well.
Ave Futuria
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Rana Lotfy
连接： Jul 11, 2003
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性别和年龄： 女性, 28
国家：Egypt
Province/State: Al Iskandariyah
城市: Alexandria
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 10, 2005 - 05:49 AM
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I remember when i was young i didn't get along with my family (not all the time) but now i come to see that im lucky to be belssed with such a loving caring family.
Now i could say im daddy's girl!
I agree with what Palestinian said .
Family influences& shapes yr personality,career& future.
Having a supportive&caring one will bring up a confident,loving,supportive person in society.
Family is a small society & nobody should ever underestimate its role and influence.
Teen pls dont be to hard on yr folks they are trying to do their best,maybe when u grow up u'll see things they way i see it now.
Romaica
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Ashraf
连接： Jan 31, 2004
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国家：Saudi Arabia
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 10, 2005 - 08:56 AM
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Kaiser,
Undoubtedly, children will have their own way of thinking and lives when they grow up..and I don't exepect any of my children to become a 'copy' of me in the future. I have however to fulfill my Islamic duties towards them in raising them Islamically, investing for their future, caring for them, guiding them the best I can...and then leave the outcome to Allah.
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Cicero
连接： Feb 1, 2004
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
January 11, 2005 - 04:14 AM
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Palestinian:
Similarly i will do my part. (I hope at end i will be able to say that i played it well and from my side that was it)
Second contributor is of course society. On that we sadly dont have big influence..
Disasters as Tsunami and similar should teach people a lesson how important is to support eachother. (life itself is harder than people think)
Ave Futuria
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Laura Kofler
连接： Feb 21, 2005
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Re: Family! Its Essence.
February 21, 2005 - 01:45 AM
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Image, you really got me thinking about this whole family thing. I guess I never really stopped and thought about how the people in our lives influence who we are. Our families are “the very essence of our lives and the products of that unique fellowship!” I couldn’t agree with you more! Everything single thing we do, and every person we ever have contact with has some sort of shape of who we are and who we will become as a person. And the very root of all of this starts with our families!
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Nompumelelo Precious
连接： May 13, 2004
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国家：South Africa
Province/State: Gauteng
城市: Johannesburg
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Woman’s identification.
March 16, 2005 - 04:43 AM
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by polola
[B]I can’t understand why woman after getting marry change her family name and should take her husband’s. Doesn’t she lose the identification of her family? Is wife’s family name worse than husband’s? Why woman is always under somebody’s control? Why man rules everywhere and to begin in the family?
Can you answer?
Somethings are right the way they are, we don't have to change everything. When you get married you are in a union with that person and then you become one. I f u want to keep your surname or use two it's fine but then that is why men pay lobola in South Africa not because they are buying you but because they are uniting your family and theirs and thanking them in a way as well so then if u keep your surname I just don't get it.
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